Ella’s Super-Duper Sound Protectors ($1.99)
Creating Safe Spaces for Kids Who Struggle with Loud Noises
For many families, birthday parties and holidays mean enjoying great food and play time for the kids to enjoy. But when you are raising a child with sensory issues, deciding whether to attend these events is often a heavy and stressful decision.
Growing up, my first-born son, who is autistic, struggled immensely with sound overload. These moments often led us to leave birthday parties and family events early before it turns into a tantrum or worst yet, a major meltdown.
What many don’t know is that my son also has a medical condition. He has Epilepsy and because of this, I try my absolute best to never put him in a situation that will cause him unnecessary stress or physical strain.
The Evolution of Sensory Needs
Over time, my son has mellowed, and his relationship with sound has changed. Today, he actually enjoys soft, mellow "cafe-style" music. However, we still take extra care to provide him with a quiet room and screen time for his favorite videos—especially now that he is 14 and finding his own voice through his own hobbies and interests.
Meet Ella: A Story of Family Love and Support
My latest book, Ella’s Super-Duper Sound Protectors, was born from these exact experiences. Ella uses her headphones to navigate the world and all the sounds that come with it. When her parents tell her about a big family party, they don't just tell her to "tough it out." Instead, they provide her with a sanctuary—a quiet, safe haven where she can retreat when sights and sounds get too much:
A personal tent that can be her physical "safe space" away from the crowd.
Familiar items like her favorite books and a soft blanket.
Special treats like a plate of cookies she can enjoy in peace.
Ella’s Story on YouTube
I want this book to be as accessible as possible, so I’ve recorded a video of myself narrating the flipbook to create an interactive read-aloud experience. You can use this video to introduce the concept of "quiet zones" to your child before your next big event, helping them visualize how to find their calm when things get loud.